You don’t want your professional problems or the children’s school difficulties invade your house, this crowned place. It is not so simple, because the house is also a refuge where can be expressed the daily problems of each one.
Some basic rules have to be respected in order to your home more zen and more pleasant.
Arrange and delegate!
Already, learn how to avoid people who stress you. Start by keeping a house a minimum ordered, you will find more quickly objects and papers that you search. That will avoid you irritation and waste of time. Then, transform it into a family rule, where each one will be responsible for his affairs, that decreases the weight you have on the shoulders, and you will be able to do others more interesting activities.
Don’t hesitate to create moments in couple or in family to release the stress of the day. For example, you can pass fifteen minutes every evening, when you and your husband returned from the office, and/or when your children are here, during which each one will have the word when it will his turn. That makes possible to evoke his bads and good moments of the day.
Choose your moment!
Don’t forget to talk about your problems, because loneliness and silence create the stress. But you have to choose the right moment! Between your husband and you, don’t talk about your problems of job, couple or your bank account before going to bed. You will sleep badly and will be tired and irritated the following day with the alarm clock, which will do nothing but accentuate the problems of the precedent day. Act before!
Take a moment to relax yourself, you will be ready to benefit from your evening or your weekend, with clear ideas and with light head. This moment of transition can also be devoted to exercises of relaxation, listening to calm music, reading a book or a magazine, take a bath, in short with all what you desire and which can relieve you. By doing that, you will quickly evolve your form, your moral, and that of your entourage.
A little stress…
And yet it is not easy to drive out the stress of the calm moments! Indeed, it is not rare to see arguments in family or in couple during the evening some before lying down or during the weekends, which are supposed being happy and relieved. To cure it, try to understand why they appear at these exact moments, and then try to anticipate them. Do you know a little stress can support the communicationand allow you to regulate a problem more quickly?
Keep in mind that family dinners, and the hugs under the feather-bed are moments of happiness and of peace which should be supported at all costs.
And it is by learning how to benefit from the good moments that you will eliminate your minor problems more and more, and will make your house an place of peace.